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	mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; 	mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; 	mso-style-noshow:yes; 	mso-style-parent:""; 	mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; 	mso-para-margin:0in; 	mso-para-margin-bottom:.0001pt; 	mso-pagination:widow-orphan; 	font-size:10.0pt; 	font-family:"Times New Roman"; 	mso-ansi-language:#0400; 	mso-fareast-language:#0400; 	mso-bidi-language:#0400;} &lt;/style&gt; &lt;![endif]--&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: center;font-family:times new roman;" align="center"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16;"&gt;Why We &lt;i style=""&gt;Really&lt;/i&gt; Teach&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I was once nominated for a university-wide teaching award, and part of the portfolio I was required to create included my “Philosophy of Teaching.”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;You all write your philosophies at the beginning of your education program, and you probably revise them during your career.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;My philosophy currently reads:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoTitle" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:14;"&gt;Philosophy of Teaching&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: center;font-family:times new roman;" align="center"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I have several philosophies that guide the way I teach.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;By modeling these beliefs as I teach my students in the teacher preparation program, they will understand their importance and transfer these values to their own future teaching practices.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Evident in my teaching are the following beliefs:&lt;span style=""&gt;    &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;h1  style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;*Life-Long Learning&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I believe that teachers need to instill in their students the importance of life-long learning by reading and staying current in their profession, and by modeling that learning for learning’s sake is fun.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;h1  style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;*Teacher as Facilitator&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I believe that teachers must be facilitators (rather than directors) of their students’ learning--guiding their students to become independent and self-directed learners.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;h1  style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;*Providing Feedback&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I believe that teachers are obliged to provide prompt and detailed feedback to students’ work—praising their successes and offering constructive criticism for their weaknesses.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;h1  style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;*Mastery Learning&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I believe that teachers must ensure that their students have truly learned the information by assessing them, and, if students were unsuccessful, by reteaching and reassessing until their students have met the course objectives.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;h1  style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;*Collaboration/Cooperative Groups&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I believe that teachers need to provide opportunities for students to work in cooperative groups, emphasizing the notion of pride in one’s “team” as they work toward the same goal.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;h1  style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;*Higher Level Thinking Skills&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I believe that teachers ought to require students to work at the upper end of Bloom’s Taxonomy (analyzing, synthesizing, and evaluating). &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;h1  style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;*Integrating Technology&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I believe that teachers must have a repertoire of technology-based teaching strategies and require their students to integrate technology into their work and assignments.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;h1  style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;*Practical Application of Theory&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I believe that teachers need to base their instruction on theory, but provide practical applications of that theory for their students to comprehend the relevance of the information.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;h1  style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;*Reflective Thinking and Action&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I believe that teachers must continually and persistently seek to fine-tune and improve their teaching.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;After rereading that document, though, I realize that I speak to the pedagogy and the practice of teaching, but I don’t speak to the heart of teaching.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Before I taught at the university, I taught elementary school.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I taught third grade for four years, and I taught fifth grade for two years.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It was during that time that I realized that the &lt;i style=""&gt;real&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;reasons we teach are many.  This is why we &lt;i style=""&gt;really&lt;/i&gt; teach.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;We teach for &lt;b style=""&gt;Ryan&lt;/b&gt;, who, after I tutored him after school to prepare for what was then the TAAS test, wrote me a letter saying he appreciated my support, saying, “I love it when a good teacher believes in me because it helps me believe in myself.”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;He passed the TAAS test, but I think he learned much more than just academics in those tutoring sessions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;We teach for &lt;b style=""&gt;Jeff&lt;/b&gt;, who practically vowed to despise classical music, but he participated cooperatively in my unit on classical composers.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Jeff was a big, burly football playing third grader who was almost my size.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;A few weeks later, he came in to class humming Vivaldi’s “Spring,”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;[hum a few bars].&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;When I looked at him with raised eyebrows, he said, “What?&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I LIKE it!”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;We teach for &lt;b style=""&gt;Brenda&lt;/b&gt;, who confided in me.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;She asked me to come to the bathroom with her one day.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Once there, she lifted her shirt to reveal bruises that engulfed every inch of her back and arms--brutally beaten into her by her mother who that morning had threatened to kill her.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I called the authorities, who took the call very seriously, and they removed from her home that very afternoon and took her to the Round Rock Baptist Home where she could be safe.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;We teach for &lt;b style=""&gt;Jerald&lt;/b&gt;, an avid deer hunter, who learned in sex education that AIDS is transmitted by blood.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;He panicked and asked, “Can you get AIDS from a deer?&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Because if you can, then Oh My God, I’ve got AIDS.”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I was able to give him the reassurance that he was healthy and probably AIDS-free.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;We teach for &lt;b style=""&gt;Rachel&lt;/b&gt; who wrote a letter to next year’s fifth graders, right before she began sixth grade, to tell them that they’re going to have the best school year of their entire life, and that they will learn a lot and that they can trust their teacher with any secret that they may need to share, and that if you get in trouble it’s because you deserve it because Ms. Pate is “firm but fair.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;We teach for &lt;b style=""&gt;Emily&lt;/b&gt;, who after a unit about the Holocaust, summarized the most important thing she learned from her studies by saying, “I learned to not let injustice continue; and next year, in middle school, if I see something that’s not right or not fair, I will tell a teacher—even if it does make another kid or kids mad at me.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;We can’t sit idly by and let bad things continue.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;We teach for &lt;b style=""&gt;Stacey&lt;/b&gt;, who could often reteach a lesson to Jerald (remember the deer hunter, Jerald?) and who probably taught more of the curriculum to Jerald than I did.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Quite frequently, after I taught a lesson and explained everything, Jerald would raise his hand and say, “Ms. Pate, I don’t get it.”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I would reteach in a new and different way, but quite frequently, Jerald still didn’t “get it.”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;For awhile, Stacey would ask me if it I’d like for her to explain it to Jerald.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I said, “Sure.”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;And, every time, Jerald got it.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Eventually, after I would unsuccessfully reteach something to Jerald, Stacey would just give me that knowing look and take care of it.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I moved to fifth grade after that school year, and two years later, Stacey and Jerald were both in my class again.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;On the first day of school, Stacey said, “Ms. Pate, do you want me to sit next to Jerald this year?” &lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;I said, “Absolutely!!!”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;We teach for &lt;b style=""&gt;Hunter&lt;/b&gt;, who daily said, “Thank you for teaching me so much new stuff, Ms. Pate.”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;He also had a crush on me.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I didn’t encourage the crush, but I must admit, it’s nice to have someone admire you so much!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;We teach for &lt;b style=""&gt;Greg&lt;/b&gt;, who had a question about abortion.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;The question didn’t come out of the blue.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It was an election year, and we were learning about the candidates and their platforms.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;One day Carly asked, “I know it’s an overgeneralization, but is it right that Republicans are pro-life and Democrats are pro-choice?”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I told her that it was, indeed, an overgeneralization, but that basically, that was correct.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Greg said, “What’s abortion?”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Lauren immediately began to give a back-alley definition which I managed to squelch before it got too gory. &lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;I proceeded to delicately answer Greg’s question as scientifically yet as vaguely as I could and then said, “Anything else you want to know, you’ll have to ask your parents,” to which he replied, “Why would I ask my parents anything?&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I ask you questions every day and you answer them every day and I never ask my parents.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;This isn’t any different.”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I did inform the principal of my impromptu lesson that day.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;She supported me, and we never heard from any parents.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Later that week, I spoke to Greg’s mom about the incident.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Greg hadn’t brought it up at home, and she was perfectly satisfied with my answer.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;We teach for &lt;b style=""&gt;Colin and Jack&lt;/b&gt;, two extremely bright boys who tended to act out a bit.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;When they accidentally broke a lamp in my classroom tossing pillows back and forth while I was working with another student, I told them to choose their own punishment (because I was at my wits’ end with them—this was not their first somewhat rambunctious incident).&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I told them they had the rest of the week to decide what their punishment would be, and they should just inform me then.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;The next day at lunch, they asked me to stay in the cafeteria for a few minutes.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;They had arranged for the music teacher to set up the microphone and speakers in the cafeteria.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;In the middle of fifth grade lunch, Colin and Jack got on the microphone, asked for everyone’s attention and publicly apologized to me for breaking my lamp, and for their misbehavior in general, and they promised it wouldn’t happen again.”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;On top of that, they fixed the lamp.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;We teach for &lt;st1:city st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place st="on"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;Brandon&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:city&gt;, whose only safe place was school because he was abused and neglected at home.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I told him a story about a time when I was a child that someone had hurt me, and he began to trust a few adults.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Even though he was academically behind and rarely mastered new skills, he got what he needed the most, and that was love.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;We teach for &lt;st1:city st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place st="on"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;Alexandria&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:city&gt; who was willing to use her double black belt in Tae Kwon Do to “take care of” Nathan.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Nathan had broken my jaw by crashing into me as he ran from one side of the room to the other.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Alexandria confided in me that she had taken a vow at the beginning of her Tae Kwon Do instruction to never use it except in self-defense, but she went on to inform me that “I could kill him if I needed to.”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I told her I appreciated it, but it wasn’t necessary.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It’s not a coincidence that my daughter bears the same name as this bright, caring, and tough young lady.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;We teach for &lt;b style=""&gt;Boone&lt;/b&gt; who was so smart and so bright, he did not want to get “stuck” helping the other kids.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;He did not want to be the gifted kid who helped the other children who worked more slowly than he or who didn’t get it at all.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;He said, “I got it already, why can’t I do something else.”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;So that’s exactly what he got to do!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;We teach for &lt;b style=""&gt;Kristin&lt;/b&gt; who did not succumb to peer pressure or allow her mother to succumb to the parental peer pressure and buy me a “fancy” Christmas gift.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I taught in a district where some of the folks were rather wealthy, and some of the parents (and kids) tried to outdo each other in their teacher appreciation gifts.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;But rather than give in to that pressure, Kristin handmade a crude sculpture of a bird from clay.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It is a treasured possession to this day.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;We teach for &lt;b style=""&gt;Brian and Randy and Carly and Heather and Colin and Jack&lt;/b&gt; (remember Colin and Jack who had broken my lamp) and countless others who, once they had moved on to sixth grade, came back to the elementary school Open House with their parents and their younger siblings just so they could say hi and tell you about their sixth grade accomplishments.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;We teach for &lt;b style=""&gt;Rachel&lt;/b&gt; who had the confidence in herself to actually send off for a patent.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;She had created a beach towel carrying device that allows you to safely carry your towel while riding your bike.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;She asked me if she should do it.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I told her to go for it.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I even helped her fill out forms and mail them.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;She didn’t receive the patent, but she had the courage to follow through with her desire.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Now there’s a life lesson.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;We teach for &lt;b style=""&gt;Carlita&lt;/b&gt;, who mentioned her third grade teacher in her salutatorian speech at high school graduation.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Carlita moved to our school in third grade in February.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;She was the first African-American student that I think our school had ever seen.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;When she arrived, we were studying Rosa Parks.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I worried that there might be issues.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Here we were studying African Americas who stood up for their rights, but my students had never seen first-hand the reality of the injustice that many African Americans face.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I went on teaching about Rosa Parks, and during that unit and for the rest of the school year, the students learned a lot from Carlita.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;And she learned a lot from them, too.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It was a very harmonious school year.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;And third grade made an impression on Carlita—she said so in her speech nine years later.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p face="times new roman" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;We teach for &lt;b style=""&gt;Charlotte&lt;/b&gt;, who was just a gem and came up with notable quips all the time like, when explaining how to summarize, she just said, “Put it on a bumper sticker—that’s what my daddy tells me to do all the time.”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;The student and I &lt;i style=""&gt;and she &lt;/i&gt;knew that she was a bit long-winded, so the bumper sticker comment was perfect—but it stuck with my students, and every time they had to summarize, they said, “Put it on a bumper sticker.”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I have every confidence that this world will definitely see &lt;st1:city st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place st="on"&gt;Charlotte&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:city&gt; again in some type of powerful leadership role.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Look for her, perhaps, as this country’s first woman President.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p face="times new roman" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p face="times new roman" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: times new roman;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;We teach for &lt;b style=""&gt;Kristin&lt;/b&gt; who stopped my husband in the airport.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;She had been watching us (me, mostly) stress over getting two babies’ diapers changed and prepared to board a day’s worth of plane trips for a two-week trip to Maine.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;As I took yet another trip to the bathroom, she approached my husband and asked him if I was Ms. Pate.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;He said that I had been Ms. Pate at one time (then he told her I had a different last name and a different title now).&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;She told him that I had been her third grade teacher and that she was headed to college in the fall.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;I returned from the bathroom and Tim said, “Do you know this girl?”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;I said, “She looks familiar.”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;She said, “I’m Kristin.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;You were my third grade teacher, and I loved you!”&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: times new roman;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: times new roman;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;Teaching is THE BEST career on the face of the earth.  You often hear about how the children are our future.  And they are.  But it’s teachers who lead them there.  And &lt;/span&gt;&lt;i style="font-family: times new roman;"&gt;that’s&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt; why we &lt;/span&gt;&lt;i style="font-family: times new roman;"&gt;really &lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;teach.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/740108464719039325-9173570650451707588?l=shanapate.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://shanapate.blogspot.com/feeds/9173570650451707588/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://shanapate.blogspot.com/2009/04/why-we-really-teach.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/740108464719039325/posts/default/9173570650451707588'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/740108464719039325/posts/default/9173570650451707588'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://shanapate.blogspot.com/2009/04/why-we-really-teach.html' title='Why We Really Teach'/><author><name>Shana Pate Dudley</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00626036745335290939</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-740108464719039325.post-6983129466888758190</id><published>2009-04-23T08:36:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-04-23T15:30:42.463-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Bullying in Schools/Following the Golden Rule</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;"&gt;I watched the Ellen DeGeneres show yesterday, and one of her guests was Sirdeaner Walker, the mother of Carl Walker who committed suicide last week as a direct result of being a bullying victim at school.  One of Ellen's recommendations was that there would be a class on compassion--every day, starting in kindergarten.  &lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a teacher, I can tell you that I do teach compassion.  Daily.  But it's not a class in and of itself.  It's just part of my day.  I talk about it and I model it.  But not all teachers do that.  Many teachers have fallen into the trap of thinking they can't teach morals because it's too much like religion.  Compassion, though, while it is an anchor in many religions should also be an anchor in life.  Many of the "morals" are life morals and should be taught for basic citizenry:  compassion, responsibility, patriotism, respect (of self, others, property),  honesty. . .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;"&gt;the list can go on. . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While the amount of curriculum each teacher has to teach is overwhelming, the teaching cannot stop there.  Teachers need to teach their students how to be people, how to get along with others, how to be contributing citizens, and how to BE NICE.  &lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;"&gt;The Golden Rule is so basic--treat others the way you want to be treated--yet it's not being taught (or followed) by all teachers.  If you don't like being made fun of, don't make fun of others.  If you don't like being yelled at, don't yell at others, if you don't like being excluded from activities, don't exclude others.  If you don't like being talked about behind your back, don't talk about others behind their backs.  If you don't like being called names, don't call others names.  If you don't like people telling lies about you, don't tell lies about others.  &lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is the responsibility of teachers, administrators, AND parents (you have to contact the school and INSIST that they act) to stop bullying.  &lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Memorial contributions for Carl Walker-Hoover may be sent to:&lt;/span&gt;    &lt;span style="font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Carl J. Walker Trust Fund&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;c/o Hampden Bank&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;"&gt;19 Harrison Avenue&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Springfield, MA 01103&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/740108464719039325-6983129466888758190?l=shanapate.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://shanapate.blogspot.com/feeds/6983129466888758190/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://shanapate.blogspot.com/2009/04/bullying-in-schoolsfollowing-golden.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/740108464719039325/posts/default/6983129466888758190'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/740108464719039325/posts/default/6983129466888758190'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://shanapate.blogspot.com/2009/04/bullying-in-schoolsfollowing-golden.html' title='Bullying in Schools/Following the Golden Rule'/><author><name>Shana Pate Dudley</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00626036745335290939</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
